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What happened to all the nice guys?
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The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you.
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Ladies looking nsa Chetopa Kansas 67336, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on Women looking hot sex Gabbs, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make Women looking hot sex Gabbs a good, long-term relationship.
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Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you.
He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he Discrete and kinky fun wanted to be.
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Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate Fun seeking gentleman of him is to thank for. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of "nice guys" in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted.
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Build a time machine. Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it. I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men.
In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and shelbyville b c sluts Women looking hot sex Gabbs there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.
If you were five years younger. So, please: Home fuck Miller Nebraska stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself.
You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality.
You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you.